Hey there true believers. Sorry about the delay. You know how life is. Anyways, enough about that. Let’s get to why we’re all here: Women. The topic of today’s class is very near and dear to my heart. It’s something that every man has dealt at some point in their lives. Something that still plagues me to this day. I’m talking about cockblocks. Those fucking guys that love to jump in on your conversation, stand there with no purpose other than be annoying, and try their hardest to get the girl that you want. You know the ones. Well I’m here to tell you that there is a way to completely destroy every guy that you deem a threat to your game. Everyone. From the douche with the fo-hawk to your friend that always “steals” your girl. This is a very special tool used by PUA’s all over the world. It’s called AMOGing.

AMOGing is Alpha Male the Other Guy. Basically, it’s a way to show that your the cooler one out all the other men in the area. It’s so simple to do and it works like a charm. Here’s how it goes: Lets say your in a set. You’ve been throwing out your game perfectly. All of a sudden some tool comes by and tries to open the set your already in. Unless this guy is your designated wing, he’s a cockblock. Even if he isn’t going after your target, theres always a chance that he might DHV enough himself that your target will find him more attractive than you. You don’t want that. So what do you do? Tell him he’s cool. Seriously. It’s like that scene in Mr and Mrs Smith. Where Brad Pitt walks in on that poker game and the guy shows him his gun. All Brad does is put a big smile on his face and says “”Thats cool man…thats cool….you’re cool”. He says it like the gun doesn’t phase him and says it like he really means it. This is called  labeling. You call a guy the “Ass Man” while smiling and giving him a high-five, he won’t know whether its a good thing or a bad thing. He will assume that you think it’s good, so he won’t get mad at you for saying it. He’ll just get more uncomfortable every time you say it. And it will show. AMOGing only works if it comes off as friendly and sincere. Give the guy a pat on the back, a high-five, even a hug. No matter what happens, if he gets pissed at you being friendly and calling him cool, he will look like a complete dick. If he goes along with it, you will seem more Alpha than him. Win win. Here are some other scenarios that you may find yourself in:

Cockblock: Hey girls. Whats up?

PUA: Dude! I’m so glad your here. Please get these girls away from me!  Oh shit! Thats a cool shirt man. Thats cool. Your cool!

Cockblock: How do you guys know each other?

PUA: Her? I fucked her

(Girl will laugh and hug you swearing that she didn’t)

Cockblock: Stop talking to my girl (or any aggressive talk)

PUA: Oh man! You remind me of that guy in highschool! Dude! Your that guy! Man I miss highschool. Thanks man! Your the coolest guy here! High-five!

Cockblock: (Keeps interrupting your rapport)

PUA: Hey man let me show you this! (Do a DHV magic trick to him. This will not only impress him and leave him with nothing to DVH with himself, but also impress her and keep her wanting more)

Cockblock: (Shows signs that he wants to fight)

PUA: Ha ha, dude. Are you like trying to pick a fight with me? Ha ha. Okay, okay. Hold up, hold up. Wait a sec. We’ll do even better. First, we’ll have an arm-wrestling competition. Then, we’ll do one-armed push-ups. And last, pose-down! (Then start posing and flexing with a dumb look on your face)

Cockblock: (Says anything)

PUA: “Dude.. you’re a pretty cool guy.. you know, I’m just saying that you’re cool.. you’re just a cool guy” (in a way where he can’t tell if you’re serious, so he has to say, “thanks”, but doesn’t quite know how to react).

These are all priceless and they all work. You don’t have to be exact with any of these, just use the basics. Keep a smile and give the guy lots of backhanded compliments. Thats AMOGing. I use it almost every night. It works. Enjoy. Next up is Phone game. Specifically texting. Promise it won’t take so long. Have fun and get your game on my young Padawans. Excelsior!

Make no doubt about it people…the Game is played in COMFORT! So many guys either skip or hurry past the comfort building stage and end up alone, it’s sad. It’s a fact that even if someone is hypnotized, they still won’t do anything that their not comfortable doing.So I want you to ask yourself this: Why would a woman kiss, or sleep with me if she’s not comfortable being around me? The answer is, of course, she won’t. So how do you get a woman comfortable enough after just meeting her to bed her? That answer is simple and yet has alot of detail to it. It involves the continuation of kino escalation, meaningful conversation, location changes, emotional proof, and time. If you stop at attraction and skip comfort building all together, or just do a bit, you will find yourself with alot of friends that are girls instead of alot of girlfriends. I cannot stress how important the comfort stage is. Here are some key points to building comfort while gaming.

Rapport:

Talking. It sounds easy enough but sometimes you can get stuck saying the same old thing that every girl hears over and over again. To avoid this, you must know how to start conversation, what to talk about, and when to talk about it. Make things interesting for your target. Obviously you’ll want to stay away from the “yes, no” answers, but two or three word answers are just as bad. Like openers, comfort building convo should always have a great story. This is not hard to learn how to do. Watch your favorite stand-up comedian. See how they not only make you want to wait for the punch line (building interest), but how they also pace themselves, how they don’t laugh at their own jokes (atleast until everyone else is laughing), and how they move on to another joke and them may come back to the first. This is why comedians, even the most unattractive and non-famous ones, get 10’s all the time. They know how to talk and how to build comfort.

When you first open a set and use an opener, the conversation starts from there. You obviously don’t start with introductions at this point because it would show too much interest and you haven’t DHV‘ed enough for them to care who you are. Only after you’ve built enough attraction is a women or someone in the group going to ask who you are (never ask the target her name as it, again, shows too much interest). At this point, most men just tell them what their name is. But why do that?  Instead, keep things interesting by playing a simple guessing game. She ask what your name is, you reply “what kind of person do I look like to you? A John, Bob, Marcus?”. Not only can you easily bust on her for giving you a name that’s way off, but it also gives you a sense of mystery, as well as keeps you from jumping through her hoops of compliance. Just like men can give compliance test to see how far the target is willing to just do what the PUA wants, women too have compliance test, and use them ALL THE TIME! She ask you for a drink and you buy her one, compliance. She ask you what you name is and you tell her, compliance. These are hoops that women set up for you to jump through in order to tell if you are a man of higher value. You, in turn, DHV by never jumping through those hoops. She ask what your name is, make her guess a few times, then tell her. If she ask what you do, tell her your a pencil sharpener repair man, your the guy that staples all the magazines in the middle, anything. Make her beg to know what your job is. Now, instead of finally telling her that your an accountant, doctor, bartender etc, tell her a story. Tell her from start to finish about how you came to be where you are today. Start with your childhood dream, how and why you did or didn’t give that dream up, how that moment in high school changed what you thought about whatever, how you met so-and-so who helped you, and finally how that all made it possible for you to be doing what you now do. Here the story that I use while gaming in-field and online (I hate online gaming but I’m just really good at it and it easily translates from real world game):

” You know, all my life I wanted to be a superhero. I read and collected tons of comics as a kid. I knew I wasn’t gonna get bitten by a radioactive spider or make multi-million dollar gadgets, so I started doing gymnastics and martial arts. I was a really shy kid (most comic book kids are) but the gymnastics and martial arts really gave me the confidence I was lacking. By the time I got out of high school I was the most popular kid in the whole school and one of the most well known in the city. I realized that what I really wanted to figure out is why people can be so sheltered socially and some not. So I started learning about human behavior while keeping with my other training. Now I’m a Exercise specialist, teach woman’s self-defense, and I teach Human Social Dynamics to adults who are still in that social shell. Still, I would be a superhero. Love my life, but I still want to be one.”

See how that works? This is called grounding. It’s a way of getting the two of you on the same level. Not only do I avoid the lame answer of “I’m a trainer and some what of a life-coach”, but I also build comfort by taking her through phases of my life. Sure, everyone’s story is different, but the phases are usually the same: Childhood dreams, failures, re-evaluations, present-day accomplishments. While I’m talking, she will be thinking:” I remember my childhood dream. I remember how it didn’t work out. I remember feeling awkward in school (everyone does). I remember getting to where I am now”. Storytelling like this brings commonality to the forefront, which in turn, builds comfort.

Like I’ve stated before, an alpha male is not some hard-ass looking for a fight. An alpha is someone that can take care of a woman’s physical and emotional needs. You have to DVH (once again, demonstrate higher value) in order to convey that. One way of conveying you being an Alpha is to show vulnerability. It’s very simple to understand how it works and why. Think of the movie “the Karate Kid”. Kid meets a girl, kid gets beat up by bullies, kid learns karate, kid wins in the end. Great movie. However, if it were kid meets girl, kid already knows karate and beats up bullies from the start, that would make a short and boring movie. If Kevin Bacon moved to a town were everyone danced all the time, the last dance scene in “Footloose” would have sucked. Get it? Tell stories (interesting ones) about your failures and how you overcame them. About how your sister was in trouble and you were scared to go into that neighborhood to get her, but you did anyway because you would do anything for your family. DHV. Show her that if  she (subconsciously of course) were to start a family with you, you would be a wonderful protector. She’s starting to get comfortable.

The Move:

Now I actually mean move. As in a different location. Say that you’ve opened a set. Your target has given you enough IOI’s that you now know it’s time to start building comfort, but your standing in the middle of a busy bar. What do you do? You have to move to a quieter location in order for comfort building to work. It can be the smokers area, a balcony, the V.I.P. table you have, or even a quiet corner that YOU can lean against. This does many thing. It makes so that you two have openly shown mutual interest in each others company, puts you two “together”, gives you a quieter setting for DHV games like the Cube etc, and nulls any outside distractions, i.e. cockblocking friends or other PUA’s. Now the move is not as simple as just saying “let’s go over here”. There are factors that you must be aware of so you won’t get cut off immediately or in the future. First off: ASK HER FRIENDS PERMISSION! You might be down to have a seat in the booth. She might be as well. But, if you try to take her away without acknowledging her friends, you will get cut off at the pass. They will grab her back, tell her their all about to leave, or tell you that they don’t think so. Even if you have DHV‘ed enough around them, they will either purposely cockblock, or attempt to join you. To avoid this from happening, simple ask them if it’s okay if you borrow their friend for a minute and point to them were you’ll both be. That’s it. That’s all it takes. They will either say yes, or that it’s up to her. If they do say no, and you’ve built enough attraction, the target will let them know that it’s alright.

Compliance:

Women will put you through shit test constantly. A shit test is just a way of women seeing how far they can push your buttons. A man of lower value will instantly respond to a shit test. It’s hard not to. A woman will put on a pout and say “You don’t like me”, to which most men will say “Yeah I do! I like you alot!”. You failed. A woman will say “Why are you wearing that goofy hat?”, to which most men will reply “You think its goofy? I thought it was cool.” you failed. Instead, smile and simply state whatever their attitude is and how much you like it, i.e.: “I love the hurt little puppy thing, it’s adorable, or “I love the antagonistic attitude, it’s so cute”. I’ll usually follow this up with a neg, but only if it happens during attraction. If it happens during comfort, you have to perform what is known as a freeze-out.

Freeze-outs are like (I know I’m gonna get shit for this) training a dog. Seriously. You reward good behavior with good feeling and emotions, while rewarding bad behavior with discomfort. People are the same way. If you’re in the comfort stage and your target is giving you shit test, simply smile and appear disinterested in her. DON”T LOOK UPSET! Just make it seem like you were watching a movie that you’ve seen 30 times on T.V. and you didn’t feel like changing the channel. Look around the bar, change your body language to face away from her, smile at someone else. Make things uncomfortable for only a few moments, Then start a new thread of conversation. When she gives you a new IOI, reward her with and IOI of your own. This can be through kino or a compliment (never about her looks, only about her energy, personality etc). Remember, your still getting her to chase you. Cat-string.  The same is done with kino-compliance test. You tell (never ask) her to give you her hand and she ask why, freeze-out, let a moment pass, tell her again. You take her hand, while you both are sitting, and place it on your knee. If she leaves it there, reward her with an IOI. If she removes it, freeze-out, take a moment, put it back on your knee and continue as needed. The more a woman complies to what you want, the farther you can take the compliance. This is mental-escalation and works the same as kino-escalation does. However, there has to be enough interest built for freeze-outs to work. If she doesn’t care that you stopped talking to her, it’s obviously not a useful tool.

Conspiracy:

It sucks when two people are laughing and tell you that it’s an inside joke. That statement automatically puts you outside with everyone else and makes them seem like a team. That’s why conspiracy is so great. Say you’ve played the Rollercoaster with her at this point, and some girl she knows comes up and starts talking about sex. You can easily reference how long your target waited in line (her foreplay time) without her friend knowing what you two are talking about. This will make a little inside joke between the two of you that will make her feel more comfortable with you. Like you two are old friends in on it while everyone else has no idea what your talking about. This is conspiracy. Here is a little game called Screw, Marry, Kill that is great at building comfort and conspiracy:

Tell your target that your going to point out 3 guys in the venue. She has to tell you which one she would screw, which one she would marry, and which one she would kill. She has to answer and as a reward, she gets to ask you the same about 3 women. Keep this game going as people walk by. Later on you can point out the guy’s she picked when you two see them i.e. “There’s your husband! You better go make sure he isn’t planning on divorcing you for hanging around me all night.”

The Jump:

So you’ve build alot of comfort so far. You know alot about her and she knows alot about you. You’ve continued to escalate kino. You might have even kissed her by know. What next? It’s almost closing time. This is were the jump comes in. The jump is a move from the current venue to a completely different one. Will the jump happen now, tomorrow? Will it be the all night dinner or your place?  This all depends really on how much comfort you’ve built so far. If you’ve built enough to were she wants to see you again, just not tonight, TELL HER (never ask) to give you her phone number. Or playfully state that you’ve had fun talking to her and that you wish there was some form of technology that would allow you two to continue your conversation ( Thanks Dano).  Once she has given you her number, don’t walk away as soon as it’s saved. Keep talking. Continue to build comfort until one or both of you has to go.

Now, If you have built enough comfort to were she will go with you or meet you at a late night dinner or coffee shop, your in good shape. This type of jump is called an Instant Date. Even if her or your friends come with, you two are there together. This can be very powerful when it comes to gaming. I have had many of these instant dates and, unless there is some outside force i.e. work in the morning, paper due etc, I usually continue to escalate kino and build comfort enough to F-close (have sex) the target that night.Remember, kissing is not seduction. It can be part of attraction and comfort building. However, you must know when to hold back. You don’t want it to seem that all your looking for is sex. If you think that the kissing is getting too hot and heavy, pull back, take a break. Tell her you don’t want things to move that fast. Your not that type of guy. Your not that easy. Doing this will DHV you into another world! Not only that, but it will also help destroy her LMR (last-minute resistance), which I will discuss in a later class.

Last Stop:

So you’ve done your jump. Either you met up with your target the next day or so, or took her to your place that night. Either way, you still want her to be comfortable enough to go to that last step, seduction. When a woman is alone with you in your home or her’s, it’s not a good idea to try to get her right into bed. Even if she bolts straight to your bedroom. Unless she takes her cloths off and say’s take me now, nothing is a sure thing just yet. Show her around the place like you would a good friend who has never been there before. Make the bedroom the last place you go. If she comes in with you, make sure you stay out of the line between her and the door. You don’t want her to feel like a little rabbit about to be caught in a tap. You want her to feel comfortable. After you’ve shown her the room or she’s shown you her’s, suggest you go back to the living room to sit and talk. This is something that guy’s never do. Once we get her into the bedroom, we want her to sit on the bed and start making out with us. This is wrong thinking. Once again, you don’t want her to feel trapped or forced. Comfort is the word. She will be shocked. relieved, and a bit disappointed that you didn’t try anything while you had her where “the magic happens”. The thing is, once she’s been in the room and is comfortable knowing that you didn’t try anything then, she will have no problem going back in a second time for a longer period. I don’t even follow them in now. I simply tell them were it is and let them explore for themselves. Even if they ask me to come join them I don’t. I tell them to come back were I am and chill for a bit. This works wonders later on. You don;t want to be in that moment were your getting it on and just when you think it’s going to happen, she says you should slow down. That sucks. By taking YOUR time, it will help dampen the chances of that happening later on.

Now this is a trade secret that I’m about to share. Something that I have told all my friends to do, but not anyone else. I am sharing it publicly here for the first time. The greatest tool for building comfort in your final comfort location: a photo album. That’s it. A simple picture book. ALWAYS have one sitting in or around your living area. It can be on a coffee table or just leave it on the couch before you head out to the clubs. Women cannot resist looking at old pictures. That have to see what your life was like before they met you. You should have this album stocked with pics that can lead to more DHV stories. Know what pics are in there. If you plan on telling the story about the time you and your pal got chased by a bear when you were hiking together, have a pic of that friend in his hiking gear in the album. That way you can point him out to her later on to remind her that you have had a crazy and dangerous life. Have pics of your family to show her that you are family oriented (even if your not). Put your cutest and most embarrassing baby pictures in front to get that “Awwwww” moment out of her. Walk her through the pages with stories about when this happened and why you were wearing that. This is the best grounding tool I have come by as of yet. Probably better than her meeting your parents. She will feel a sense of commonality watching you grow up through pictures. She will think: “I have friends like that. I remember my fourth grade Christmas pageant. I miss my old dog too.” Continue kino through kiss and touch and you’ll have built enough comfort to move onto my favorite part: The seduction stage. That class will have to wait my young padawans. Next up is phone game and how to get rid of the cockblock/boyfriend without seeming like a cock yourself. Until then, keep gaming kids.

BEWM

Openers and Negs are essential to game. They are valuable tools that any PUA must master in order to get the women they want. However, there are other “tricks” that will also boost your mastery of your game and all around social skills. Over the years, pickup artist have studied and tested various routines and gambits in field, in order to help build rapport and be interesting. Not only are these games/tricks/bets a fantastic way to show your target and her friends that you are fun and exciting, but they can also be great ways to build attraction, comfort, demand compliance, and seemingly get into your targets head. Tell a woman all about yourself and she may quickly get bored. Tell a woman all about herself, and she will think that your the only one who gets her. I have honestly had women bring other women to me just to demonstrate my psychic/magical/impossible powers over and over again. I’ll go through the gambits that have worked for me time and time again, however, there are many more that are out there and are very useful. Go to any library and look up street magic, cold reading, or bar bets and games. All can be useful info for the aspiring ladies man. Lets get started:

The Cube:

Without question, this is my favorite cold-read routine, and one of the most effective of all time. It was created by P.U.G Neil Strauss a.k.a Style. The man is a god. All you really need is your target (or the targets friends to build jealousy and lower chances of cock blocking) and a good memory.

First, ask the target if she’s ever heard of the cube. No. TELL her to give her hands to you (don’t ask, tell. This is called a compliance test. I’ll get into that later on). Now you tell her to imagine that she’s driving down a desert highway, nothing to see for miles. All of a sudden she sees a cube on the side of the road. Ask her what size is the cube in relation to something. Then ask her what color is the cube. Ask if it’s solid or transparent. Tell her that there is a horse near the cube and ask her how big is the horse and what is it doing. Next, tell her there are flowers around the cube. Ask how many flowers there are. Now the game is done and it’s time to tell her what all that meant. Here’s how you read her answers to the cube:

• Cube size= Her ego. How she sees herself in the world. Paris Hilton’s was the size of a hotel, see what I mean.
• Cube color= Personality. Black would be anti-social while blue would be laid-back and cool etc.
• Cube solid or see-through= solid means she is hard to read and doesn’t let people in easily. Transparent means she wears her heart on her sleeve. She’s an open book.
• Horse= Relationships with men. If the horse was big and looking at the cube, it means she wants a man that will protect and watch over her. If it was small and doing nothing, it means she’s not into relationships right now.
• Flowers= Friends. However many flowers there are equals the number of true friends she has. Friends that she honestly trust. the ones she knows she can count on.

Now the great thing about the cube is that not only will it actually help you learn what kind of person your target is, but it will also make the target think that you know her so well already. There have been a few times where I’ve done the cube, the target denies the interpretation, but her friends confirm that shes exactly the way I described. It never fails. I don’t know if its because its true, or because women really want to believe it is. Now of course, everyone is different, so you have to be quick on your toes. I once had a young lady tell me her cube was mirrored. I told her that she views how she is based on the way other people see her. On others opinion of her. Now I thought I was gonna get shot down on that one, but she told me I was absolutely right. That other people’s opinions matter so much to her. See what I mean? It will also help to be vague and yet seem to give detail. If your target says her cube is the size of a house, tell her that she has a strong foundation and knows who she is and what she wants, but is still striving to do better for herself. She’ll say that is exactly who she is. Here the thing: THATS WHO MOST WOMEN ARE!!! Or, atleast who they think they are. That’s what cold reading is all about. Giving vague descriptions with authority to make them seem real and pinpoint acurate. It’s what every fake psychic uses to tell people about themselves and their deceased loved ones. Practice the cube on your female friends and family members until you can get it down well enough to use in actual gaming.

The Rollercoaster:

This cold reading routine is a great follow-up to the Cube. Not only is it alot easier to do, but it’s a great way to bring a little sexual tension and humor into the conversation. Here’s how it goes:

Ask your target to imagine herself at an amusement park. There is a rollercoaster that she really wants to get on but there’s a line. Ask her how long does she wait in line. Tell her that she finally gets on the the ride, harnessed in and about to start, how does she feel?  Tell her the ride has started and she’s on the highest point with the biggest drop. She realizes that the ride is actually a water ride and she’s about to hit the big splash, what does she yell? Next, she’s of the ride and wants to get on the merry-go-round. She gets on but her horse doesn’t work, how does she feel? Now for the fun part. Here’s how you read her:

• The wait in line= How long she likes foreplay. A woman told me 2 hours once and I knew that would be wrong, but she said that it actually was how long she liked foreplay. Chicks are weird.
• On the ride and about to go= How she feels just before sex starts.
• What she yells out during the big splash= You guessed it, orgasm. It’s what she screams out when she hits that point.
• Horse doesn’t work= How she feels when a guy can’t get it up.

The cool thing about the rollercoaster is how much fun women have with it. Whether your answers are accurate or not, they’ll still have a good laugh and a great time talking about it with you. They’ll bring their friends over to hear their answers and laugh and giggle during, while their friend has no idea whats going on. She’ll feel as though she’s in on it now with you. Your together during this point. She might even want to try doing it herself with you there to remind her how it goes. This cold-read gambit works get while picking up.

Five Questions:

I always use this one whenever I find myself in one of those award “soooooo” moments. The ones were the conversation just dropped and you don’t know what to say next. It’s also a great bar bet gambit. I always make the bet like this: If we play we have to bet. If I win, she has to buy me a beer. If she wins, she gets to kiss me, but only a peck, because I don’t make out with people I just met (yeah right). This was also created by Neil Strauss. Here’s how it goes:

Tell her that your going to ask her 5 very easy and simple questions. All she has to do to win is to get every answer WRONG. Make sure she understands that the goal is to get them wrong. You can even do a test question just to make sure she gets the game. Next, ask her anything you want. What time is it? What color are my eyes? What day is it? What bar are we at etc?  It doesn’t matter what the first 3 questions are, just as long as she gets them all wrong (which she should unless she’s a complete idiot). Now here is how you win. With a little bit of acting skill, start to look confused. Count on your fingers or whatever you want to do, just be convincing. Ask her how many questions was that so far. Normally, most people will say 3 which is right…you win. If she catches you on that one and says something like 7 or 45, laugh as though you got busted and say “You got me. You’ve played this before haven’t you?”. She’ll say no and you’ll win, since that was the fifth question. Get it. I love this routine to death. Since I bet that if I win I get a beer and if she wins she get a kiss, most women get confused and think I won a kiss. I let them know that my prize was the beer and want that and not a kiss. Cat-string, remember? Now depending on the mood and how much interest SHE has earned with me, I might tell her to forget the beer and that I’ll ALLOW her to kiss me since I tricked her. See how that works? Or, I’ll get the beer, drink it, then tell her I feel bad for tricking her and ALLOW HER to kiss me. Either way, I kiss-close my target within minutes into opening conversation with her. Just another Jedi-Pimp mind trick.

Subconscious:

This one is more like the Cube and Rollercoaster. It’s based on subconscious responses. It can be hit and miss, but it doesn’t really matter. It will leave you with something to talk to your target about and give you alot of chances to add in DHV stories and spikes. It’s very simple to do. All you need to remember is: Color, animal, and a body of water. Here it is:

Ask your target to give her answers as fast as she can, without really thinking of them. Ask her to name a color. Then ask her to give three adjectives to describe said color. Ask for and animal and describe it the same way she did the color. Next, a body of water. When she is finished, read her answers like so:

• Color= How she see’s herself.
• Animal= How she see’s her friends.
• Water=  how she see’s her sex life.

There is a fourth part that tells how she views death, but I tend to stay away from those topics. Remember, you want her to see you as someone that makes her excited and happy, not the guy who made her think about her dead puppy.

Lock-in Props:

A lock-in prop is any item a PUA owns that is given to the target for safe keeping. This can be a hat, a necklace, a ring, watch etc. The item has to be shown as having value to the PUA (through a cool DHV story) even though it may, in reality, be worthless. The point of a lock-in is to build trust, keep you in the targets mind, and make sure the target does not leave without you knowing. I cannot stress how useful a lock-in prop is. They have worked miracles in my gaming. I once gave a woman from England my battered Spider-Man necklace to wear for the night. I made up some story about how much it meant to me and how long I had it (complete BS). Then I left her. I didn’t even talk to her for the rest of the night. By the time I ran into her again, the bar was closing and she had to leave. She took off the necklace, told me how much she appreciated me letting her wear it, put her tongue down my throat, and then gave me her number. Simple as that. Why? Because I showed her, by not only giving it to her but by not hounding her about it all night, that I trusted her. Trust. The key to the lock-in prop. Did I really trust her? No. Of course not. I didn’t even know her. But, because I let her believe that I did, she trusted me. Hat’s are great lock-in props. Especially crazy looking hats. The wilder the prop, the more a woman will want to use it herself. Use big furry top-hats. Use multi-colored boas. I have even, on occasion, walked around clubs with a stuffed Winnie the Pooh doll. Tell a woman that you’ve had it since you were six (even though you bought it last week at a yard sale) and she will melt. Tell her that she can play with it while you go find your friends, and she will be yours. Just remember not to use something you actually care about. Some people are just asses who will leave with your stuff just because they think it looks better with then than with you.

NLP:

NLP is Neuro-Linguistic Programming. It’s tricky. It’s easy to see how it works, but hard to master completely. Basically, it’s using certain motions, attaching feeling or commands with those motions, then using those motions to bring up those feeling and commands whenever one chooses. It’s hard to explain in written form, but I’ll try my best. Think of it like this: If we were together and I were to act like the tip of a pen was scolding hot, and I did it over and over again, pretty soon your brain would think that it was hot as well. If I then came at you with said pen, you would back away and not let me touch you. That is one aspect of NLP. I use NLP usually while I have one on one time with my target. While in conversation, I’ll ask the target about things she hates guys to do and why. As she’s giving her list, I’ll repeat the things she say’s while motioning away from us and into the crowd. Then I’ll ask her to tell me the things she wants in a guy. The things she wants in a relationship. This time, as she says her list, I’ll repeat the qualities she likes and at the same time motion to myself. Then I’ll mix the list, saying the bad things and pointing away, and the good thing while pointing to myself. As we move on in conversation, I’ll continue to point to myself. When she see’s this, she will subconsciously be reminded of the good qualities she likes in men and associate those qualities with me. If another guy comes along and tries to game her, I’ll point in his direction the same way I pointed during the bad qualities, making her associate them with him. Now I know that this sounds crazy, but it’s real and it works. P.U.G Ross Jeffries has been teaching it for years. Mentalist Derren Brown is amazing at it. I’ve seen him make a woman believe that her car was turned black even though it was right in front of her and as red as blood. It’s an amazing tool to learn. I’ll dedicate a future post entirely to it soon.

Those are just a few of the tools I use while gaming. There are many more, and I’ll post as many as I know, but I’ll leave it at that until we go over some more key elements of game. Most of what was covered can be used at any stage in seduction so go out and try em’. Next up is how to build comfort and why it is so important to get to and how to move on from it. Go get em’ playa.

BEWM

In order to get a woman to date or sleep with you, there has to be attraction between the two of you. Attraction has to come first. So many men try to start with seduction, but they just come off as creepy and desperate. Many try to start with building comfort, but they come off as too nice and average. You have to be able to build attraction first. Make a spark, a connection between you both. The best thing about getting a woman interested in you is that it’s not that hard. You want her to be interested…be interesting. One of the keys to getting a woman to be interested and to stay that way is by showing lack of interest in her, atleast at first. It amazes me how true the adage of men being dogs are, because women are cats. Think of it like this: If you put a string in front of a cat and just let it sit there, the cats not going to even notice it. Move the string around a bit and the cat will go nuts trying to get it. Let the cat get the string and it will quickly lose interest. Cat string theory. You have to constantly make it seem like the woman is getting to you, then quickly pull away so she can continue the chase. I might be getting a little ahead of myself so, lets start from the top.

There are many different ways to open (open conversation) a set (single or group of women). You can have a direct opener ( i.e. “your cute so I had to come get to know you), or an indirect one ( i.e. “Do you guy’s remember Ducktales?”). There are many different openers out there. “Hi” is one. Thats it. Hi. Be prepared to follow that hi with something interesting though. Truly interesting. A story that will really get there attention, or a question that will really get them to think. Then follow that up with another interesting story or question. There are ton’s of canned (pre-thought of) openers online or in books that you can find. Use em’ if you want. I prefer to come up with my own to stay original and to make sure no one else has said the same thing to them the night before (which is embarrassing let me tell you). Here are a few very short ones to give you more of an idea of what openers are.

• “Who is the leader here?”
• “Okay, who’s been naughty and who’s been nice?”
• “This may sound like a weird question, but would you sleep with Jesus?
• “Do I look like a drug dealer?”
• “Is it OK to breakup with someone with a text message?”
• “Are you guy’s retarded or are you cool” (You have to be super confident for this one to work. Have a good story ready!)

Neither the choice of opener style or opener itself really matter. What matters is how you open. Say “guy’s” instead of “girls” to keep it from seeming sexual in anyway. Remember, lack of interest is crucial. Body language and approach are really the key to getting conversation started. Think of any predator in the wild. They stalk and approach in a straight line to their prey. Don’t do this. Just like prey, a woman will feel threatened by this much directness. This also shows too much interest. Instead, approach a woman the same way horses approach each other when meeting for the first time. Horses move at each other in semi-circles to show that they are none threatening, they then stand side by side. When approaching a set, come in a semi-circle and from the side. Speak from over the shoulder and look as if you could walk away at any second. Rock your body as if you are about to leave but your just staying a second to hear what they have to say. This is called a False Time Constraint (FTC) and is a great way to show lack of interest on your part. Only when the women in the set (specifically your target girl) turn to face you directly do you do the same. Keep the non-verbal and verbal FTC’s coming. Verbal ones being: “I really have to get going”, ” I have to round up my friends”, “I can only stay a second” etc. Remember, cat-string theory. Once the set is interested in your question/story/conversation can you begin the use of negs.Negs are simply a funny backhanded comment to the target to show lack of interest. THESE ARE NOT PUT DOWN OR WAYS TO BE MEAN. These are only given to the target and are meant to make her think “What did he mean by that?”. Negs are excellent ways to keep her friends from cock-blocking you as well. They will think that you have no interest in their friend and hence are a non-threat. Remember, negs are not an insult. You want to show her: A: your not interested and B: She’s flawed just like everyone else. Take her down a notch without her getting pissed at you or thinking that your an insecure dick. Here are some examples of negs. Try to recognize the difference between negs and insults.

• Y’know, I just saw a girl wearing the EXACT SAME dress/outfit a little while ago.
• Your hair looks shiny, is it a wig? Oh well it looks nice anyway
• I like your look, beauty is common but you seem like you have character
• I think I like your left eye best
• (Looking at her friends but pointing to her) Is she always like this?
• Where is your off button?
• You remind me of my sister
• You remind me of my weird ex
• You look just like my high school math teacher

See the difference? You want her saying to herself: “Why isn’t this guy after me like every other guy?”. “What did he mean by that?”. “I’ll get him to like me”. There are also Shotgun negs. You want to do these when you are isolated with only the target around. When she talks, act as though she spit in your face while speaking. Make it seem like your grossed out, but that you don’t fault her for it. Or pick a pretend piece of lint out of her hair. Make her self-conscious. Remember the cat-string though. You want to use the Push-pull method. Bring her down with a neg, then bring her back with a compliment or a hug or another sign of affection, then neg her again. Keep it to a minimum though. Use common sense. If you neg too much, one after another, you will seem like a dick or that she has no chance with you at all. You’ll take the string completely away from the cat. A girl who is a 7 might only need one or two negs, while a girl who is a 10 might need 4-5 in order to get her off the pedestal that so many men have put her on. Push-pull gentlemen. Cat-string.

You will know if the playful negging is working or not by the IOI’s she gives you. IOI means Indicators of Interest. Simply put, they are conscious and sub-conscious ways to telegraph her attraction for you. Sometimes it’s hard to tell if a girl is into you or just being nice. I could never tell. I lost alot of opportunities because I didn’t know what signals to look for. I look back on certain situations now thinking DAMN! I had that and didn’t even know it. Here are some key IOI’s to look for:

• The touching and twirling of the hair while talking/looking at you
• Smiling when you speak or look at her
• purposefully touching you
• scratching her own face and hands
• rubbing her wrist
• asking your name
• re-instigating conversation once it has stopped
• laughing at your jokes (even the ones that aren’t funny)
• you hold her hand and squeeze, she squeezes back
• you tell her “Hands of the merchandise” and she touches you again
• She’s very playful in a teasing and physical way
• She ask if you have a girlfriend
• You move, she follows
• She leaves you but comes back to talk more

Now there are more, however those are a few key ones to look out for. If you get three from her, then you’ve made her attracted to you. Good job. But not letting the attraction turn into a friendship is also part of the puzzle. It is very easy to go from “I like this guy” to “I like this guy as a friend. The LJBF zone ( Let’s just be friends) is one that should be and can be avoided very easily by the use of kino.

Kino is short for kinesthetics. Touching. It is a must during the attraction stage of game. You must start kino very early into your approach and conversation. If you don’t, and things still go smoothly, you will get caught in the LJBF zone. Here’s why. If you meet a woman and within the first ten seconds you go in for a kiss, your probably gonna get slapped. If you go on four dates without even touching her, then go in for the kiss, things will feel awkward. However, if you tap her on the shoulder when she makes a good point, then playfully push her when she teases you, then hug her when she’s sweet, then hold her hand while you walk to the bar, then rub her arm while you talk, then intertwine your fingers as you look into each others eye’s, kissing her next is gonna be no problem. That is called kino-escalation. Starting small with a handshake or playful punch to the shoulder, and ending with a kiss or (YAY!) sex. It’s getting a woman to be comfortable with your touch. If you take things to far to fast, no big deal. Take a step back and then try later. Just keep escalating. Even though this sounds like it should be part of building comfort, the only kino that is not allowed during attraction is third base or higher (slow down there buddy). Escalating kino is not only a great way to show her that you don’t want to be “just friends”, but also a great way of avoiding the awkwardness of the first kiss. If your kissing her hand, shoulder, and neck all night, then kissing her lips before you say goodbye won’t feel weird at all. In fact, if you escalate properly, you should be kissing her long before you part ways. That is why kissing is still part of the attraction phase.

Remember that all of this is just attraction. You have to do this first in order for a woman not to think your a creep or just another nice guy. Attraction, then comfort, then seduction. Follow this order always. If you miss-match steps, you will get no where fast. A woman of class and value will not sleep with you just cause she’s horny. If you find one who will, wear two rubbers cause you ain’t the first, or the sixth, or the tenth, or the 40th. The attraction phase may take an hour or just 5 minutes depending on your skills, but it will work. Like the great David DeAngelo once said: “Attraction is not a choice”. I’ll delve into this a little deeper later on, as well as how to move from attraction to the comfort stage because, lets be honest, if a woman is not comfortable around you alone, she ain’t having sex with you anytime soon. Happy gaming my young Padawans.

BEWM

Inner game (self worth/feeling) is, in my opinion, one of the most important aspects of gaming itself. Just as important as outer game (pickup, conversation skills, etc). Why? Because if you don’t have confidence, you will never talk to a woman you are attracted to. Atleast not in a “I’m going to hit on this woman” type of way. Women are attracted to confidence. Confidence is Alpha. How is a man that is afraid to talk to little ol’ her, gonna protect her in the world. He’s not. She will think this. You don’t want her to. So be confident. I know what it’s like to get the butterflies before walking up to a beautiful stranger to try to start conversation. I still get AA (Approach Anxiety). But because I have excellent inner game, I continue to plow through. It’s like walking across a busy street with a pebble in your shoe. It’s uncomfortable, but your not gonna stop in the middle of the street, take off your shoe, get the pebble out, etc. Your gonna keep walking until you get to where you need to be. It’s easier said than done, but actually doing is the only way anything I’m writing is gonna work. You must destroy those fears of embarrassment, resentment and ridicule. Those are all in your head. It’s only your ego that your protecting, not your life or future. Just the ego. You gotta let all that shit go if you want to be Alpha to women and the rest of the world. The ego is your enemy when it comes to almost anything, but especially in picking up women. I’m gonna go over a few things that will help you get over some of those implanted insecurities, as well as explain why they are there.

The best advise I can give you in developing inner game is going about it the same way I did: Movies and Music. Now I’m not talking about watching and imitating some action star to learn how to be an Alpha. That might help your outer, but not your inner. I’m talking about viewing things that really do change the way you perceive the world and yourself. The first film I will tell you to watch is Fight Club. Without question, that movie upped my inner game like no other. It’s not the actual events or scenarios that take place in the film, rather the philosophy that the main characters eventually live by. “This is your life and it’s ending one minute at a time”, “Your not your wallet, your car, how much money you have in the bank. Your not your fuckin’ khakis”. “You have to realize that someday you WILL die. Until you know that…you are useless”. Get what you want now, because the worst case scenario is that you will die…which is gonna happen anyway. So take chances now because you never know when your time might be up. You don’t want to live your life being afraid of experiencing it. You don’t want to be boring and passive? So don’t. As far as music from the movie goes, listen to Tom Waits’ “Goin’ out West”. It depicts the mindset and emotion of someone who KNOWS that their an Alpha to aT. Also grab and watch Revolver by Guy Ritchie and Magnolia starring Tom Cruise. Tom’s Character in the film is rumored to be based on pickup guru Ross Jefferies. Without ruining anything for you, Revolver deals with exactly what I spoke of before…ego. Just watch it and you’ll understand.

Another way of destroying insecurities is recognizing the feeling that comes with them. The next time your out and you see a beautiful woman, be determined to talk to her. Really have it in your mind that your going to approach her. Start to. No matter who you are, you should experience that gut feeling telling you “don’t do it”. At that moment I want you to memorize that feeling. Try to keep it going, and then tell yourself that it’s not real. That you will be doing her a favor by talking to her and her group of friends. Make that feeling go away by talking to yourself. Telling yourself that the feeling is a lie. That you accept yourself and thats all that matters.That she should be so lucky. I know that it sounds like a bunch of self-help garbage, but if you have AA, why not try it? AA is not just a mental but a physical response to what your mind and body deem dangerous. It’s your body telling itself that if you approach someone, theres a big chance that you’ll end up with mental damage that would be just as serious as physical. That would be great if women were werewolves or lions…but there not. Their just people. Most often times, their people that you’ll probably never see again. So why not take the chance? YOUR NOT GOING TO DIE FROM TALKING! No matter how bad a rejection might be, it’s not gonna kill you. Once you realize this, you’ll be unstoppable. If your not getting laid at all, and for every 50 you talk to 49 will tell you to fuck off and the 1 will go home with you, well then talk to 50. None of the 49 are gonna pull out a gun and blow out your brains . None. So take the chance! Realize that there is no need for fear. And if you’re not afraid, you’re confident.

Go to your bathroom mirror. Stare at yourself. Dead in the eyes. Try to keep them from moving and jittering. Get relaxed and comfartable with yourself. Breath. Doing this will help you accept who you are and thus, build your confidence. Body language will do this as well. When you walk and stand, keep your chin up, shoulders back, and back straight. Don’t look down when people are walking towards you. Be conscious of this. It may feel a little weird at first, but in time it will become natural and real. Walk upright with your eyes straight and head up, and crowds will part like the red sea. Alpha. Thats what you will scream when you have this kind of swagger. Breath from your stomach and not your chest. Be not only relaxed, but grateful with who you are. Never wish to be someone else, and others will wish to be you.

A great way of getting rid of AA is also being a dumb-ass. What I mean is doing or saying stupid shit in front of women that you otherwise would try to be on your best behavior around. Go to a group of hot ladies and tell them you like to get pooped on. Tell them that your priest touched you and you liked it. Tell them you want to ride a unicorn naked. Tell them anything. The point is that when you walk away…you’ll still be here. You’ll realize that your not going to explode if women think your an idiot. Do this to every group of women you see at the bar for an entire night, and the next time you go out, regular conversation won’t seem so scary. It will in fact be a relief. I’ve heard stories of guy’s walking around with dildos on their heads or wearing prom-dresses to the mall to get over AA and to build inner-game. Good ideas. I’m not saying go out and do that, but it might help if your AA feels as bad as having a panic-attack.

Look, I’m not Tony Robbins. I don’t have some secret word that will make you feel like an untouchable superman. Sorry. But what I can tell you is this: Unless it has something to do with death or family….it’s not that big of a deal. Especially when it comes to picking up women. Even the best PUA’s crash and burn here and there. We just know its no biggie and move on. Being afraid to approach women, doing it anyway, and getting laid is way better than being afraid to approach and doing nothing. Trust me on that. May the force be with you my young Jedi-Pimps.

BEWM

When giving any type of advise or teaching, many will offer the dos. I, on the other hand, find it’s more efficient when discussing the art of game to start with the do not’s. The pick-up artist must always be the exception to the rule. He must not just be part of the crowd. He can’t be another guy doing the same old thing that the other guys do in order to get the girl. Doing so would be stagnant, predictable, and boring. Women love excitement, intrigue, adventure, and surprise. In this post, I’ll let you in on a few things that most normal guys do while gaming girls and why they are wrong to do. Some of these might be obvious, while some might be things you never noticed or never thought of yourself. Either way, trust that the following habits, quirks, and routines should be avoided at all cost.

First: The “Hard” look

I see it all the time. Guy’s walking into and around bars or clubs looking like their about to step into the octagon to fight for the heavy-weight championship. The fight face. The “I’m in the zone” face. The “I dare a motherfucker to fuck with me face”. Yeah, good luck getting laid with that one. While it is is true that women value someone that can protect them and their possible offspring from danger, this high value is a subconscious one. There is a need to be the toughest guy in the room. Women do respond to it. Only they don’t see it the way that most men think they do.

The quality that women respond to that is connected with the thought of being tough and or the protector is called Alpha. As in “Alpha Male”. This is the number one quality women, whether they know it or not, look for in a potential mate. This high valued quality stems from centuries of pre-programed survival techniques. If a woman wanted to survive in less civilized times, she need an Alpha mate to protect her (not being sexist, thats just the way it was). If a women wanted to make sure that she and her children would survive the harsh wilderness and winter to come, she would try to make the best hunter/gatherer of the tribe her mate. The Alpha male of the tribe. Through social evolution, this value of the alpha still remains. Since there is no longer a need for great hunters or swords men, a women will determine who an Alpha is differently now.

Today the number one quality of an Alpha Male is….the smile. Thats it. Simple and plain. A smile. Why? That is also simple. A smile says so much about a person. If you walk into a bar, smiling before you’ve even entered, it says: I’m comfortable with my surroundings, even though I might have never been here before. I was having a good time outside this place and I don’t need anyone in here to make me happy. If you want to be around someone who is having fun and is happy, you should be around me. Thats Alpha. Being your own leader and loving who you are no matter what everyone else is doing. This is why the “Tough guy” face never works and just ends up with you being isolated. Most people who try to look hard end up looking bored. And if you bored…your boring. The other qualities of an Alpha are as follows:

1. Convey a sense of humor ( be witty, not goofy. DON’T LAUGH AT YOUR OWN JOKES!)
2. Be a social center. Have social proof (Try to be cool with everyone. This will also help lower later cock-blocking).
3. Be well groomed ( Keep the beard but get rid of the stubble. Dress relaxed, not sloppy).
4. Be Confident (Walk up-right. Chin up. Shoulders back. Igor never got any ass)
5. Connect with people.

Second: Buying a drink

This is seriously one of the things that makes me laugh the most when I’m out and about. It also makes me feel so bad for some guys. Here is the scenario: Guy sits next to two or three chicks at a bar. Guy jumps into a their convo uninvited. Chicks humor him. Guy offers to buy them all drinks. They accept. Drinks come. Girls grab drinks, say thanks (or not), and walk off. Guy is alone with a $24 hole in his wallet. Seen this happen? Had this happen to you? Probably has. I used to think that a woman accepting a drink meant she was interested in me. I found out that it just meant the obvious: Woman wanted a free drink. Drinks are expensive. Have you ever turned down a free one? Probably not often. So why doesn’t this work while gaming? Simple. IT SCREAMS LOWER VALUE!!!

If some guy offered you alot of money just to hang out with him and be his friend, you might accept. Money is money after all. However, you wouldn’t think that he was a cool guy. You’d probably think he was pathetic….get my point. It’s the same thing. Women respond to Demonstrations of Higher Value (DHV). Buying a woman a drink (or anything actually, unless she is your girlfriend) is a Demonstration of Lover Value (DLV). Even if she asked you to buy her one, say no! When I come across a situation where a woman I’m gaming ask me for a drink, I respond with one of a number of things:

• “I’ll bet you for one”. Here I’ll make a bet that I know I can’t lose (using a few PUA routines that I’ll get into later). If she wins, I’ll buy her a drink. If she loses, She buys me one.
• “I don’t buy women drinks”. Plain and simple. Not explanations. Just move on with the conversation.
• “I don’t feel like drinking anymore right now”. This does two things: Gets you out of buying the drink and makes it appear that you two are on a similar level with each other. Like a friend who suggest going somewhere that you don’t want to go to. You both don’t go.

Third: Walking around aimlessly

LOCK IN! What does that mean? It means find a spot in the bar/club/party to hang out at. If your seen entering a place, then walking around without talking or knowing anyone, then ending up right back where you started, you lose all social proof. It’s what we call “ruining the field” (the field being any location that you choose to game in). Remember, you want to look confident and comfortable in your surroundings. Find a wall, a chair, or the bar itself and lean on it while continuing to smile. Make it truly look as though you are at home. Relaxed. Not slouching over and bored. Not upright and at attention, waiting for something to happen. Relaxed. Be an Alpha!

Fourth: Drink at your chest

Stop this now! I know you do this. You get a beer or a cocktail at the bar, turn around to walk away, and your holding it right at the center of your chest. The next time you go out, just look around. See how many guys are doing the exact same thing I’m talking about. EVERYONE OF THEM! Remember, the pick-up artist must be the exception to the rule. Why is holding your drink at your chest such a big deal? One word: Insecurity. This is a subconscious response that not many are aware of. What you are doing isn’t putting your drink in a comfortable spot. Rather, you are simply covering your heart. Yes, the heart. This action shows that you are not fully comfortable being where you are and that you are protecting your self. From now on, keep that Jack and Coke at your side! It will be hard at first ( it literally took my roommate two months to break the habit), but you can do it. This knowledge of protecting the heart will come on handy when we discuss obtaining a phone number, but that will come later on down the line.

Fifth: “Hi, my name is…”

Who cares? Seriously. Unless your a door to door salesmen, stop starting conversations this way. Or by asking what her name is. You tell her your name, she’s thinking: “So?”. You ask her name, she’s thinking, “Why?”. I’ll get into how to properly start a conversation with a woman in tomorrow’s class, but as of right now, stop doing this. This reeks of desperation, unoriginallity, and”nice-guyness”. And as we all know: Nice guys finish last. It’s none of your business what her name is and you haven’t DHV’ed enough for her to care who you are. Make sense?

Those are the top five bad habits that most men do while trying to score. Stop doing them and you’ll see the difference it makes. See you guys tomorrow. Class dismissed.

BEWM

Hello true believers! Welcome to Pick-Up 101. Here I will discuss, dissect, and analyze all things game related. From the initial first encounter of the fairer sex, to meeting the parents. Now let me assure you, I’m not some guy sitting in front of a computer screen regurgitating information from books, T.V., and the web. I am what I write. I’ve been part of the PUA community going on 3 years now. Not long enough to be a P.U.G. (pick up guru), but long enough to be called a M.P.U.A. (master pick up artist). When I stared on my journey my number (meaning how many different women I had bedded) was around 12. Thats it. From 0 to age 25. Within the last three years that number is 100+ with none of those women being under a 7 on the 1-10 scale (a true PUA never goes under a 7…ever!). This is my passion. The art of seduction. The art of getting what you want from the opposite sex. I am here to help you learn that art the same way I was helped. The best thing about learning this art, this science, is that…it’s not hard. It’s not something thats gonna weigh down your mind. It’s learning about the most fun, exciting, stimulating, and important topic for men…women! What could be better than that? I’ll be showing you skills from all types of systems including but not limited to: Speed Seduction, MM (Mystery Method), NLP (neuro-linguistic programming) and my own theories and ideas. Even if you have no trouble getting laid (which I hope is the case), everyone could always use a little tip or hint on how to deal with certain situations. Hell, I’m still learning myself, still evolving everyday as a PUA. My point is that you can take this info how you want to take it. Either with a grain of salt or the whole damn shaker full. The ball is in your court. You can either pass or shoot it.

Now I know that their are alot of people that despise the idea that there is a system or various ones that teach men how to meet and attract women. I completely understand this. I use to be one of those people. Some, albeit not many anymore, of my friends are those people. But like the late great Bruce Lee once said, “Absorb all that is useful, and throw away that which is not”. If you read just one thing from my following post that helps you in anyway in your current or future relationships, then my job is done. Remember that no matter who the teacher is, you can always learn something new from anyone. You would not believe how many of my boys laughed at the fact that I was using “techniques” to get laid, then “tested” said techniques themselves with amazing results. None of what I’m going to write has to do with luck, how you look, or what kind of job you do or don’t have. Women and people in general don’t respond to those things. They respond to stimulus. What you give them to respond to is what matters.

If you want to stop going into a club or bar, wondering if you should go talk to that group of girls. If you want to stop being on dates with long pauses saying “Soooooo” over and over again. If you want to stop being in the bedroom making out and hearing “I don’t think we should do this”, then you’ve come to the right class my friends. Today is my B-day so this will just be an introduction. The actual lessons start tomorrow. Hope to see you there. Game on.

BEWM

Pick-Up: 101

This class will teach human social dynamics and relationship advice.